How much of reality TV actually reflects the reality of society? Do most girls date several men at once and carry roses around to give to those who just don’t make the cut? Or is it simply the presence of these shows which speaks about where we are at as a society, more than the actual content.
As the media steadily becomes more sensationalised, our obsession with scandal and the intimate and dirty details of other peoples’ lives becomes more and more apparent.
It seems reality is no longer real or exciting enough any more, we want the larger-than-life version of everything to keep us entertained.
But is entertainment all there is to reality TV? Or is there serious comment and information to be garnered from the shows which flood our screens.
Take for example shows like The Bachelorette.
Yes, there are many of us in the world who are looking for that special person, as is evidenced by the plethora of dating sites and singles who have gone through heart brake only to get back out there and try again.
But how many women gather a group of interested men and try them out as if they were trying on shoes, at the same time playing them off against each other to see who will go the furthest to win her heart.
In the real world, not many. And yet this makes for compelling reality TV.
We love the drama, the intrigue and the emotion and even though we know it is trash we can’t tear ourselves away.
But what is this show really saying? In years to come will our grandchildren look back at this and think this is how society functioned?
My guess is no. Just as romance novels, soap operas, plays and films have done before it, this genre merely serves to point to the societal times we are in.
We are obsessed with the immediacy and quick-fix nature of an internet and converging media age.
But how long can we crave all that is sensational without it becoming entrenched in the way we actually function? Is reality TV a product of our society, or are we the product ourselves?







